Do i love myself, i do. Everyone loves himself aint so. Lets see...........
Is it love for sure or something else. Most of the times we put ourselves foremost in any situation. Doing this ensures we love ourselves, we care for us, but its mere selfishness or stinginess in our minds most of the times. Loving yourself not needfully means putting yourself first over everyone and away from everyone but to put yourself somewhere from where you are approachable to all not taking you away from everyone. Believe me people do it and many of us are still doing it without actualizing that in the process they are hurting their so called self cause or love for yourself.
Most of us never get time in life to look back where and what went wrong, and we keep on piling those loggerhead of mistakes time and again thereby taking ourselves far from the ideal or apotheosical life we dreamt of when we started getting selfish. Actually theres no start point to that and there would never be a end point. Once you are into it you are into it. Its better to start loving yourself with a motto in life or to begin with small goals in daily life,your love for yourself should never hurt or detriment anyone along the way, or put you down in eyes of your own scruples. Everyone of us i believe have a "good part" in us which tells us not to be bad and we know when we are about to do something bad, but as we keep on confiding these bad deeds this "good part" part of us keeps on diluting and become almost vitiated. This way if we look down on our such deeds down the time that eternal love for ourselves also stops coming out no matter how much we try to.
If we would have kept loving ourselves with a motto of "good to me and good to all", you would have been felicitous in your eyes no matter what other thinks because slowly but surely they too will start feeling same for you. As Paul Cohelo says "When you try to achieve something whole universe conspires to be on your side". Go for it, achieve your happiness for everyone around you and especially for you. Once you love thyself piously,devoutly you can love anyone around you, care for anyone around you, bring smile to anyone else's face.
Be Happy in life and it will show.....................
