LoVe ThYsElF

Do i love myself, i do. Everyone loves himself aint so. Lets see...........

Is it love for sure or something else. Most of the times we put ourselves foremost in any situation. Doing this ensures we love ourselves, we care for us, but its mere selfishness or stinginess in our minds most of the times. Loving yourself not needfully means putting yourself first over everyone and away from everyone but to put yourself somewhere from where you are approachable to all not taking you away from everyone. Believe me people do it and many of us are still doing it without actualizing that in the process they are hurting their so called self cause or love for yourself.

Most of us never get time in life to look back where and what went wrong, and we keep on piling those loggerhead of mistakes time and again thereby taking ourselves far from the ideal or apotheosical life we dreamt of when we started getting selfish. Actually theres no start point to that and there would never be a end point. Once you are into it you are into it. Its better to start loving yourself with a motto in life or to begin with small goals in daily life,your love for yourself should never hurt or detriment anyone along the way, or put you down in eyes of your own scruples. Everyone of us i believe have a "good part" in us which tells us not to be bad and we know when we are about to do something bad, but as we keep on confiding these bad deeds this "good part" part of us keeps on diluting and become almost vitiated. This way if we look down on our such deeds down the time that eternal love for ourselves also stops coming out no matter how much we try to.

If we would have kept loving ourselves with a motto of "good to me and good to all", you would have been felicitous in your eyes no matter what other thinks because slowly but surely they too will start feeling same for you. As Paul Cohelo says "When you try to achieve something whole universe conspires to be on your side". Go for it, achieve your happiness for everyone around you and especially for you. Once you love thyself piously,devoutly you can love anyone around you, care for anyone around you, bring smile to anyone else's face.

Be Happy in life and it will show.....................

MIND and also HEART.

we always say "put your mind to work" not put your brain at work. Even a dumb person is said to put his mind at work. Mind is something inside your brain perhaps or is it something that doesnot exist at all, just a mere exagerration. Who knows, noone has ever seen it. let me think over it.

Even a dumbest of person can succeed in life if hes willing to work hard in life, hardwork can make impossible and inconceivable things work for you. And a brightest of brain can be left unsued never employing its true potential if its not working harder. Mind comes into picture here because its something always evidencing you to go out and work hard, if you abide by it you'll succeed otheriwse most of time we are just ignorant to what mind is telling us because mind always is looking at something that is good for us from every viewpoint. Out of our ignorance sometimes we never listen to it and keeps ourselves confined to cognitive content. We never explore the possibilties that exist for us beyond the existing visual modality.

Its often heard that listen to your mind and not to your heart, because heart is not showing you the right path, mind shows you one. I dont agree with this, you need to win over both heart and mind to ambit your goal otherwise in either case you'll repent that heart was right or mind was right. I always try to listen to both and agree to both and have felt that also that there are two voices, two worlds existing within me both so different yet so true. I cant hold any of them wrong because none of them are, both are right in their own horizons. So i try to agree with both because both are important to me. Once even i tried to coalesce both but then it never happened.

I dont know why we always make heart culprit when something gets bad, and say "oh, if i would have put my mind....alas", i have seen and felt with myself too that even i used to di the same. But of late i have started realizing that heart gives us happiness, rejoices us, and mind gives us power to think, suppose and we need all these ingredients in life rather than one or few of them. So accomplishing right commingle of both is right and this cant come just by enouncing, rather you have to believe yourself that you will reach the right mix of both. And believe me if you do, you'll see those new possibilities, new horizons, new opportunties which you only woolgathered never thought that they will come true.

P.S.
Never undermine this heart, believe me its a very aesthitical and wonderful thing, make it work in tandem with your mind, and then see the beauty.

my first blog

hmm i dont kno where to begin..... i do write whenever i get time but first time i m entering into the world of blogging......atleast wotever i'll write wud be there at some place otherwise i always lose whatever i write.

All i can say to begin with is my life is getting more and more complicated and all the threads are so badly intermingled that even if i try to extricate them they get more tangled..... Will keep on making efforts though...... But i am felicitous, everyone has problems but i have certain sunny things in life with which i am blessed, i can count on them.

Now i'll keep writing here whenever i can. Let me see how committed i will be to this work.